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Welcome to the Damn Plan podcast, the show that gives women like you a kick in the backside with love and the motivation you need to grow a profitable business that fits your life. I'm Kim Nagel. I'm Sandy motorhome and we are a mother daughter duo. All are welcome at our table, so grab your favorite beverage and let's do the damn thing.
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Hello and welcome. Today in our podcast episode, we will be talking about willingness and in the damn plan. If you if you haven't had the
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privilege of reading it yet. Kim talks about willingness quite a bit throughout the book. And so today we'll be highlighting the importance of understanding your willingness, especially in pursuing your business goals. So.
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well, let's just jump right in, shall we? Kim?
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yeah.
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Oh, boy. She's on one. Here we go. People. Buckle up. Let's talk all about willingness.
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Of.
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Yeah, absolutely. And I also think. And maybe I'm just speaking for myself. But sometimes I've had really big goals and dreams. But I didn't actually take the time to sit down and think about what would actually go into getting to that spot or getting that to that business school. Like, what's the actual work that I have to do?
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And just really sitting down visualizing it and and then of course, asking yourself the important question, am I willing to do the work? Am I willing to actually do it?
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I'm. I'm.
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I'm.
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Yeah.
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And are you willing to change, to do the thing that you want to do? There's some habit changes that have to happen, right? Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. I mean, our whole life, really. But professionally? Yeah. Seven years.
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Many.
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Oh, yeah. Just growing.
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Yep.
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Yeah.
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Well, then I challenge you. If you do, do you want to do that? how about you open up your phone right now and look at your screen time. I
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maybe I won't put you on blast or you know something?
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Yeah. It's reality for everyone.
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Yes.
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Oops. What are you going to do tomorrow?
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That's right.
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No.
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That's doable.
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Yeah.
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Absolutely. And. And make that. If that's a part of your process, make that process a little shorter. And just be a little bit more gentle on yourself. But
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Just do it. Sometimes you just have to do it. Even if you're feeling bad because you missed one day or you okay that one day turned into two.
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Well, then try to just continue that habit change and don't beat yourself up when you're trying new things, because trying new things takes time. It's hard sometimes. So yeah.
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Yeah.
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Oh my gosh. Yes. I'm that person. I literally had to shut the door. If my house is not in order. Pretend like the chaos is not there. So if you are that person, I get you. I am you.
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Unfortunately.
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You skipped your house today? Yeah, absolutely. I think that it is a pretty phenomenal practice to sit down and actually take some time to evaluate your time, which is seems kind of counter intuitive sometimes, especially when you feel like you don't have enough time. But really looking at how do I actually use my time and am I going to be willing to maybe sacrifice some of the things that I do to make my dreams come true?
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Yes.
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That are supportive and that want you to want you to pursue your dreams and goals. That is an absolute beautiful thing. I love that. So I so of course a part of you know realizing your dream is having that support system. But I really think in the spirit of talking about willingness, we should go over the willingness questions and what you can do personally on your own, by your own self, during your own time.
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What kind of questions should you be asking yourself when you are going through this reflection process?
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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Oh my gosh. Please fold my clothes.
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They're probably not going to do it. Not a second time for sure.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. Like, is there a different way that I can do this? Is there, you know another mode or whatever it might be or, or you know actually asking yourself after going through those questions and evaluating, do I really want this.
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And I think for like a bonus question too, because I think this is a bonus question in your book. If I'm not wrong, but you do ask. am I willing to tell the truth and ask for and receive help? So you did allude to it a little bit when in our conversation with talking with the family and stuff, but sometimes it goes outside of family too.
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Like hiring a business coach like yourself. Are you willing to actually tell the truth about where you're at at this moment in time, and where you want to go, and then ask for and actually receive that help?
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Try to resist the urge to micromanage. Know.
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Absolutely. Community is so important.
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Which we love. We love our community. We love when people can come alongside us and kick our backside with love. I think with the with love is important to have with that, because you can't just always be harping on people, right? That's not fun. That's not the damn plan way at all.
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But if you like to be a part of our beautiful community and you love what you just heard, please subscribe to our podcast because we would love to see you in our community so we can encourage one another.
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Thank you so much for sharing all your wonderful advice on willingness today. Kim.
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As always, I love hearing your stories.
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Oh.
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That's right.
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Always. All right. Beautiful people.
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Have a good damn day.
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